WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW
- Thad Rothrock argues that retirement from a career should not become retirement from Christian service.
- Barna Group found 77% of adults ages 55 and older have a close relationship with someone younger.
- Only 19% of Christians say their church creates opportunities for different generations to connect.
- Rothrock urges churches to establish intentional mentorship that pairs retirees with younger believers who need wisdom and guidance.
Retirement may signal the end of a career, but it should not end a Christian’s service to the church, according to Thad Rothrock, CEO of Homewood Living Ministries. He argues that Scripture treats advancing age as a reason to become more engaged, not less.
The psalmist prayed, "Even when I am old and gray, do not forsake me, my God, till I declare your power to the next generation, your mighty acts to all who are to come." Rothrock sees that prayer as a plea for more time to fulfill an enduring calling.
Even in old age, the psalmist wanted to continue declaring God’s power and mighty acts to those who would follow. The focus was not withdrawal, but the urgent transmission of faith and wisdom across generations.
Rothrock points to the Apostle Paul’s instructions to Titus as another rejection of cultural expectations about aging. Paul directed older believers to teach what is good and train younger people, treating age as a qualification for deeper involvement.
Yet retirement from a profession can gradually become retirement from church life. Someone who once taught a class or actively participated in ministry may eventually move to the back row and appear mainly on a congregation’s prayer list.
That transition may be well intentioned, but Rothrock argues that it conflicts with the role Scripture gives older believers. Rather than quietly stepping away, they are called to move closer to younger generations who need guidance, encouragement and experience.
Older Christians can draw from years of life experience and Spirit led sanctification when counseling younger or less mature believers. Rothrock connects that work to Paul’s charge in Colossians 1:28-29 to present everyone mature in Christ.
The church has valued this form of discipleship for centuries, according to Rothrock. Its importance is also practical because younger congregants may need more than programs to remain connected to a church community.
A congregation losing younger members to another church or religious disaffiliation may be facing a shortage of engaged older mentors, Rothrock argues. The generation entering retirement has spent decades leading households, raising children, enduring doubt and remaining involved in church.
Those retirees do not necessarily lack wisdom or willingness. Instead, they may lack clear opportunities to share what they have learned with younger members of their congregations.
Barna Group found that 77% of adults ages 55 and older have a close relationship with someone younger. However, only 19% of Christians say their church provides opportunities for people from different generations to connect.
That gap matters because young adults identify building deeper relationships with other Christians as the leading social reason they attend church. Rothrock says congregations should therefore recognize the potential of older members rather than expect meaningful connections to form without direction.
Senior living communities like Rothrock’s offer examples of continued service. Residents lead choirs at life plan communities, volunteer in chaplaincy work beside caregivers and sit with people who are further along in illness or grief.
They also chair resident associations and retain leadership roles in their home churches. Such participation becomes a natural continuation of service when nobody tells older adults that their season of contribution has ended.
Congregations can make mentorship a defined part of church life rather than leaving it to whoever volunteers. Rothrock recommends directly inviting retirees to mentor twentysomethings, intentionally pairing participants and treating those relationships as genuine ministry work.
That arrangement might involve an established deacon guiding a new deacon through a difficult pastoral visit. It could also pair a retired teacher with a young couple seeking counsel during their first year of marriage.
Leaving such relationships informal can become nearly the same as never asking older members to participate. Deliberate invitations can make clear that their wisdom remains wanted and their service remains necessary.
Scripture does not portray old age as a countdown to irrelevance, Rothrock argues. Instead, it presents later life as a season with much to declare and less time in which to declare it, making continued service more urgent.
Retired churchgoers have more than additional time available. They possess wisdom and experience that younger believers may need, leaving congregations with a pressing choice about whether they will call older members into this crucial role.
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